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Eileen Dougharty's avatar

Excuse me while I put on lipstick to take out the trash. Brilliant, as always, my dear.

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Caroline's avatar

You’ve always done that!! 🤍

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Faye Boam's avatar

Fuck yes Caroline. This is EXACTLY what I wanted to hear today.

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Caroline's avatar

Now go out and keep being a bad bitch!!!

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Patris's avatar

Raised by those women and god help me if I disappointed them.

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Caroline's avatar

I know you haven’t!

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Jenovia 🕸️'s avatar

I got chills reading this! Thank you. You knew the girls need a word punch of love and inspiration and we love you for delivering!

Some of my fav lines:

They scared people breathless.

“Difficult” came first. “Brilliant” came second.

Always together. Thunder, then lightning.

She lived like her own reflection was the only critic worth answering to, and the rest of us were lucky just to get a glimpse.

The refusal to pad a sharp thought in bubble wrap.

I mean the woman who wasn’t asking for a single thing. Not permission. Not reassurance. Not even a reaction.

I took a belt sander to the flesh and called it refinement.

I acted like “bitch” was a bad word, when honestly? I just didn’t have the guts.

Caroline, your equal parts of fierceness and vulnerability in this piece is writing gold. I love that you're nurturing your inner bish and telling her to get her ass out here and PLAY. I'm so proud of you. The world needs more women owning every inch of themselves. I'll be revisiting this every time I need to be reminded I.AM.THAT.BITCH. 💗 Three cheers to you and Dia!

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Caroline's avatar

Damn girl!!! You’ve got me feeling like a STAR!!

It’s insane that we’d sand ourselves down instead of just being. All that work for nothing. But I learned somethings, I’m sure! I just want us to walk out fiercely and proudly. And when we’re wrong, at least we’ll be honestly wrong!

Thank you for being a goddess and a guide!!

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Jenovia 🕸️'s avatar

Baby, you are a star. ⭐️

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Lily Yee's avatar

Savoring every word of this delicious piece! Standing a little taller, unapologetic. 🔥✨

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Caroline's avatar

Stand tall, stand tall!!!

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JJ's avatar

Welcome back to not giving a crap if people like you. You were never too much. ❤️

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Caroline's avatar

Thank you 🙏 💗

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Elisabeth Donati's avatar

Oh. My. God. That is the most brilliant expression and observation of far too many of the female population that I have read with my own eyes, word after luscious word.

Excuse me, but I will be PRINTING this one and keeping it near as I go through this strange, convoluted transition I currently find myself it.

As Faye below says, Fuck yes Caroline!!! I too am grateful for your words here. You outdid yourself. Hell...you outdid everything with this! ❤️‍🔥

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Caroline's avatar

Ahhhhh damn, Elisabeth!! Thank you!! Always happy to see your name pop up. ❤️☺️🫂

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Amber Trimble's avatar

I am this person and it honestly scares people off when it's really an invitation.

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Caroline's avatar

Get on our level, people!!!!

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Cluis's avatar
3dEdited

I don't need to read this to agree whole heatedly, but I will read it anyways.

EDIT: yep, Lauren Bacall, more please. But then again I always felt like Tina Turner, Annie Lennox, and Kathleen Turner were carrying the torch pretty well.

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Caroline's avatar

Kathleen Turner for sure!!!

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Allison Deraney's avatar

Caroline - my bygone bitch just stood up and gave you a round of applause. She thanks you. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

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Caroline's avatar

Woohoo!! So glad she’s here!! ☺️

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Dia Lupo's avatar

THE ROOM ADJUSTS

OR IT DOESNT

<333333

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Caroline's avatar

And I’ll try not to care!! ❤️

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Holly Starley's avatar

To knowing the world is too little. To laughing too long. To lipsticked trash taking out. To never mistaking appeasement for safety!

Fantastic post!

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Caroline's avatar

YES!!!! Thank you, Holly!!! ☺️

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Frances Nash's avatar

Brilliant. ⚡️ Especially now, we needed this. Picking it up and wearing it.

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Caroline's avatar

Woohoo!! Thank you!!

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Paolo Peralta's avatar

I'm empowered by this. Confidence to just be.

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Caroline's avatar

☺️☺️☺️☺️

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Logan Darrow's avatar

fucking awesome

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